You aren’t going crazy.

I promise.

Unless you’ve lived through narcissistic abuse, you just don’t get it.

 

Am I crazy? Why is this person so different around someone else? Maybe I'm missing something. They are so confident about who they are — who am I to say that it's not true? Maybe they're right and I am too sensitive. I could have sworn I remembered that correctly. Am I losing it?

Narcissistic abuse is a unique experience and deserves highly specialized training in personality disorders, abuse dynamics, and relational and complex trauma. It is a slow and insidious process of breaking down another person for the purpose of power and control. These relationships can leave you feeling anxious, exhausted, hollow, and like a shadow of who you used to be.

You do not have to have made a decision about the relationship to begin this work. Healing can start wherever you are. My approach with those who are currently in a narcissistic relationship, have previously experienced one, or who are children of narcissistic parents is grounded in empathy, education, and unconditional support. I will not urge you to leave. I will not tell you to stay. And I will not gaslight you into believing you are the problem, or that there are "two sides to every story."

I know how confused you feel. I have been there. This is a safe space to make sense of your world, together. The goal is simple: to feel like yourself again — or maybe, for the first time in your life.

I am certified to treat survivors by Dr. Ramini Durvasula, a game-changer in the treatment of narcissistic abuse. I have lived through it myself. You don’t have to go through this alone.

You are not broken.

Narcissistic abuse can leave you feeling irreparably damaged. You may not recognize yourself anymore — the things you used to know about yourself, what you want, what you feel, what you trust, can feel impossibly far away.

We work at a pace that honors wherever you are. Whether this is the first time you have reached out for support, or you have been in therapy before and are looking for something different, I will meet you where you are.